Today I want to talk about how to move forward in life. That usually happens with the actions we take, as are internally backed by our choices or decisions. How do we best navigate this? Well, I believe that it is ultimately a concert of both the masculine and feminine polarities easily moving forward in unison. That is the best way forward.
Let me now expand on this.
First of all, the masculine polarity. That’s the brain work you gotta do. I would ultimately break it down to one basic principle – fear is where my faith’s misplaced.
To better illustrate this, here are some example scenarios.
One. Everything is going well, but instead, the better it goes, the more you feel uneasy. That is because things have gone so wrong for you in life before and you actually can’t believe things could be going well.
Here, just consider – where am I facing my faith? For going into metaphysics, the basic block of everything is attention and belief. Conviction is given to a belief, and therein in it you can find faith.
If you look deeply into it, there is always misplaced faith that exists behind!! fear.
In the aforementioned example, the mistaken belief would be something like: I just seem to be saddled with hardship in this life. I probably won’t have it so easy!
And when you are faced with such beliefs, what do you do? Why!!! You simply renounce your mistaken faith in that false belief with knowledge shining instead on the truth.
Things are always working out for me, directing me to my highest good. Those things had to happen as inevitable lessons; without them I would see a vastly reduced quality of life. I accept them, and know all is good… My future will only be better!
And so the masculine approach is something like that!!!
First of all, I would like to point out some most basic false limiting self-concepts that are most definitely false. You shouldn’t even entertain them. And yet so many of us have them! Once you have them, you definitely gotta strip them of the energy you give them, that is intrinsically already a truth-bestowing energy, holding great power subjective though it may be. These beliefs vastly reduce our quality of life, yet are so very common.
Examples would be ‘I am not enough’ or ‘there is something wrong with me’. Ouch. I have been there before, and yeah damn it was truly terrible. Now on hindsight, such false beliefs are vanquished forevermore. Such beliefs, when they appear, are simply false by default. Yet, they are so powerful as agents of the dark!
Again, where does fear exist here? Because it’s the same, really. All metaphysics is always valid. So basically, here it is. Your fear lies continuously plaguing, haunting you as the basis of the false detrimental, truly absurd belief. You believe that you are not enough, or that there might be something wrong with you, because…
Well, simply because you have this fear that other people will not love you. 🙁 Excruciating, agonising, ultimately craving what everyone wants – to be loved.
And simply put, this fear is false. It has faith placed in the wrong area, of your insufficiency. Yet that is innately false, for everyone!!! is here to be loved. And worthy and valuable, like a mother’s unconditional love…
Now let’s go to the common scenario – you don’t want to tell someone about something. Why is that so? Actually, breaking it down it’s all the same.
You want to be loved.
You are afraid of rejection if you tell them.
You want to preserve your inner peace.
Again, if you think about it, fear. You place your faith in things not working out for you, even if honestly… perhaps you are just totally overthinking things and there’s no need to worry so much at all. Consider!!! Maybe if they do reject you they’ve got a screw loose and you should totally cut them out of your consideration and maybe even your life lolz.
Now consider the alternative. What truly empowers you?!! So maybe, you find that what truly empowers you is bravely marching forward regardless. This action that you want to do – your gut is pointing you in that direction.
So here, that inner conviction, like a big boss totally transcends and dispels that meagre misplaced faith that sustains fear.
One last example. Fear of doing something. Like for example going to the gym. Why do your fear it? Why, the answer is none other than fear really.
What is the fear but misplaced faith in it being too much effort and so totally not worth it at all?!!
Yet now, think of it this way. You perform a mental recalculation. It actually is the case that you do possess sufficient physical and mental energy to do it. It wouldn’t drain you all that bad; it is! worth it in that sense.
And then the other part of the equation, the big boss faith that totally!! overshadows and outmuscles the misplaced faith. Think about how the health, the physique and such will benefit from your exercise. You have!! such total!!! faith and conviction within you that that is the person you want to be yo. And compared to that, what is a bit of effort if it is a sustainable thing overall that you can execute consistently and well?
So faith in the right thing aka your ideal self >>> faith in the wrong thing aka faith in it being too much of a hassle. The push forward is far heavier than what is holding you back! And thus you move forward – vision is a key.
Again, I want to really stamp this in here. If you didn’t realise, what is holding you back is fear. And that fear is actually… self-preservation.
Is it worth it? I feel like I want to show myself self-love. If it doesn’t really seem like I am receiving from it… well it saps my motivation, dampens my spirits. Puts me in a totally meh!!! mood. And so I can’t really bring myself to do it at all. Well at least until I can find a spark or impetus to take action!
I totally understand this feeling too.
So, mental reroute! Maybe an alternative mindmap would go more like this.
Do I actually have the energy to do this right now? Check!! Is this aligned with me, what the ideal version of me would do? Check. Slowly I move… Really it’s as simple as that. Again, this is a competition of faith existing between beliefs.
On one end, faith in the highest version of yourself would do. Conviction and therefore commitment to becoming that version of yourself, provided of course that you’re as yet still in possession of sufficient energy reserves…
On the other, faith in the self-preservation of ego. Knowing that you just aren’t really in the mood for it right now, and so why not slack off for a bit and go easy on yourself. Nobody will probably notice anyway. Whatever…
Faith – going back to metaphysics, such is the power that we put into our beliefs. Again, the units being attention and beliefs that we give our faith and conviction. And with fear, ego and self-preservation all tied together…
Well, I don’t really know exactly what I’m gonna write about, I’ve just been going along with the flow and letting it somehow be created so!! On to the other polarity of feminine. I’m really going at this post so half-aware today.
Anyway I basically wanna say… the nervous system reigns supreme. Maybe rationally speaking, you feel like you should really go for it. All the conditions seem to be right. You should really be ready yo!
Yet ultimately, the truth is this. Your nervous system is just not ready for it.
For instance, regarding you not starting something yet because you don’t feel ready. You actually feel you should be ready! But you don’t feel it! Actually I think it would be better if you listen to your nervous system. Don’t force yourself! You feel you should be there yet but well, you just aren’t! Fine then! Don’t sweat it. Let yourself go at your own pace. You do you, let the seeds get ready underground and ripen when they are ready.
Again, I want to talk about how many a times, people surround themselves with external noise all the time.
That’s not productive at all in terms of finding your way.
Your head, when you slow down, is totally a mishmash of noise and overthinking.
Instead, what you should do is this. Remove yourself from things for a moment. Be still, and your mind wash itself over and smooth everything out. Get into a state where all the blocked streams smooth themselves out into one well-flowing river. Here the inner voice reigns supreme.
When surety comes then, do follow it.
For there is only so much the lower mind can do. The higher mind with intuition and all that? Well, that’s actually from an expansive viewpoint which considers everything already. And before you are truly ready 4 something, you’re really not.
So really, I think it all falls down to one easy method at the end of everything.
Be still, remove yourself from life, and let your mind sort itself out. Remove yourself from the shoulds. Things will sort themselves out.
And now I’ll end the article here. Why? Well, because I kinda feel it’s literally a mess. Maybe because I spent the whole day outside and I’m relatively tired already and it’s just all coming out anyhow without too much organisation and structure and clarity. But I don’t! care, I have consistency on my side along with putting in the effort, and so I’ll easefully! go with that. This has all gone by in a blur and I have absolutely!!! no idea what I’m doing, but I mean, I’m sure I.
Put in a bit of wisdom here and there, amidst all the lack of clarity and randomness and stuff today. And it’s nearly 9 already. So I’ll stop here. Probably wasn’t that bad anyway, and I’m sure! there are things to be gleaned. Whatever. I low-key feel I’m running on fumes writing this. I’ll stop here and get back to life. Zzz. Whatever. Peace and happiness. BB.
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