Today I will talk about forging a good relationship with the universe. Of course, this also ties in with a good understanding of metaphysics and the nature of the universe itself! So without further ado, let’s begin.
I guess I’ll start with this. Sometimes, you’re truly putting your best foot forward. However, you’re not sure if other people really are truly seeing your skills, your worth, and liking you because of it. Inherently all of us have this desire to be liked, see. Sad to say, but this might even cause you to question your own self-worth, your competence in said skill. For such is present human existence.
At times like this, I find a very, very useful method to be this: The universe sees me. The universe knows and recognises my skills. Thereby, by extension, that also perfectly helps you validate yourself!!
Know that even if no one else sees you, recognises you and affirms you as well as your efforts, well, truthfully speaking, the universe does! And you yourself do too! And is that not enough? These are your main players!
And so, because of that, you do see, and you do know your value….
By extension, we often are concerned about the validation of other people and how they see us, gravitating towards people pleasing as a result. In our free time, especially when we’re asserting ourselves more so than usual, such thoughts run through our unconscious mind. What will they think of us? What if they are actually thinking negatively? And how then might I justify myself?!!
Here I really urge you to consider the saying: When things are totally an unknown, you can totally be all delulu and assume only the best ever possibilities to be true. Maybe they’re awed and starstruck by ya!
But hey, if it’s a 50-50 between choosing to let your unconscious thoughts run wild into the negative or letting them fantasise to the positive, literally, why then are you allowing the former as opposed to the latter?!!
I know. Easier said than done. Maybe some people inherently have a greater aptitude for the latter, I suppose. Can’t help it, they’re just born like that! However, for many of us at least it’s simply that this unsavoury!! programming is so very deeply ingrained within us! Autopilots!
Hence I would like to introduce this mechanism which I hope can get rid of such inferior (pardon me) programming once and for all… basically! Ya can just assume the basic nature of the universe as the default mode for everything!
See, they say that the very essence of the universe is love. Like the core of the divine feminine, it loves unconditionally, accepts, values, celebrates… Now if we extrapolate, doesn’t that mean that this is how things should work by default?? Any difference is merely because of false beliefs we’ve been keeping in our mind that’s attracting these corresponding negative!! frequencies to us!
See, we’ve sadly entrenched these belief systems into our mind that people will always judge us, not accept us, not value us, blablabla. Thus that literally becomes the default that we’re expecting!! And huh, the way the universe works is such that it validates your beliefs!! You’re expecting this?! Well, that means you want this then? Alright, here you go!! Whoosh!
And therefore, let’s return to this new mantra of sorts.
Whenever we are asserting ourselves a little more than usual and are thus worried of how others might perceive us, with a possible overthinking of self-status-lowering negative happenings as a result, do this.
State in your mind: The universe is love. Thus, the default mode by all the existences in the universe is none other than that. I am loved. I am accepted. I am recognised. I am celebrated. I am valued. I am awesome.
…And so on and so forth. You can really do your own variation, whatever works for ya! Whew!
Alright, so, next…
Well! Let’s talk about how everything is always working out for us. There’s even a song about that by Amanda Sikoral I think, I used to listen to it daily for a long consecutive period. But let’s get some basics in ok.
Earth is kinda like a spiritual grade school yo. We got lessons to learn bro…
But beyond that awaits blessings and abundance, as is the true nature of the universe! Now oftentimes, we pray for what we want, but don’t receive it. We might even end up have trials and tribulations thrown at us instead. Urgh! …But still, the reason behind this is that the universe is forging us into the higher versions of ourselves that can hold! and sustain! these blessings.
Anyway in spirituality it is said that everything happens for a reason, and happens for us. We gotta trust that. Therefore, I just want to talk about a setting of intention as a way to have a good relationship with the universe.
As I see it, an ideal state of affairs, the model student:
Does not blame, begrudge. Rather, they stay ready and open to receive.
When things don’t work out a certain way, just assume that you are being protected. Your limited mind cannot see why, but the universal mind knows. And reality is leading the way in an optimal way for you!!
As I see it, the universe is like the perfect craftsman and arranger of jigsaw puzzles. I mean, that’s why they say divine timing is perfect and all, but at the very least. I would encourage a belief that we all have reason for our existence, a rightful place, role, vocation in the world.
I know that I am the kind of person to maybe seek growth and expansion to the extreme a little, but still, yeah. That’s only because I want to step up to the mantle and claim my rightful place.
Anyway! What I want to say is this.
For instance, if something falls apart in your life, suffer if you must. But to be honest, the really positive ones say stuff like something falls away only so that something better can come in and such. And the best ones that wholly are most right for you, will always be yours. Prior to that are but lessons as you experience your growth arc in your hero’s journey, yeah!!
Thus I suppose that maybe once a day, it would be good to have some thought patterns of truth! be repeated in our minds. For otherwise, we might possibly get disillusioned by mere appearances and forget truth, even creating limiting thought blockages as a result that slow down a truthfully inevitable, yes, but still much-desired future reality for us.
I believe the ultimate is this. Drop what is not meant to stay, and oftentimes, the suffering that comes with it. 🙁 Rise above that. Higher perspectives often help, but many a times, they only come in hindsight, only after the lesson is learnt! Then, stay open and ready for the higher, right versions that are meant for you to arrive.
What be they if not blessings?!! They are truly aligned, truly fit! for you!
And in the meantime, truly, live in the end. Every so often throughout your day, literally feel ‘it is done’ and enter a state of bliss and wonder imagining this: Ah!!! Blessings are pouring down from the skies like ceaseless rain and showering down upon me!
See, according to the laws of metaphysics, you are the creator. You only draw whatever it is you believe to you, even if they are bad beliefs like people are not going to accept you and have criticisms of you etc. I totally!!! understand, it’s not that you actually want to summon that reality into your existence. But so what?!! You are the creator! And such is the reality that your unconscious mind’s envisioning, calling into being!
It’s literally like how when you are asked not to think of a pink elephant, you cannot but think of a pink elephant. It’s only that what truthfully is engraved into your reality are those thoughts/beliefs that you unceasingly pour your energy into. And that is precisely what our unconscious minds do! Especially when we cannot but overthink such thoughts. Underlying them is naught but an unconscious belief of negativity.
To use an analogy, these are weeds in your garden. They must be uprooted.
Well, it’s on a much larger scale actually!! See, because your thoughts themselves are part of you, the frequency you emit, and therein attracts whatever circumstances into your reality as well. As they say, the internal! dictates, and the external is but a reflection of it.
Well! I suppose this has somehow become a spiritual intelligence article again *shrugs*. Yeah, but this truly does still match the title ya know!
Because see, just think of it this way.
Your relationship with the universe: the universe follows your lead and brings whatever you are into your reality. Because as they say, you attract what you are, not what you want!
But oh, the horror! You are actually also totally attracting things that you don’t want, and would much rather not have even! I didn’t ask for that!! you say. But well yeah, it sucks, but that’s just metaphysics you know. Science, like gravity! You just cannot but be subject to it! And so.
To form a good, positive, loving relationship with the universe, why not do a wee bit of inner work and make sure that none of your beliefs are akin to cancerous tumours (pardon me), aka everything you are is what you want!!
Now, speaking of inner work, I totally get that a vast majority of people out there still have things that they get triggered by, and maybe it ain’t such a great idea to get everyone to uproot all those because the difficulty level probably is quite high. However, at the very least, maybe two!! things we can start with?
1: Have those positive affirmations that you want to enter your reality properly be embedded in your unconscious. Don’t let those bad untruths that are mere illusions continue their devil-king like existences in ya! See, there are actually really bad stuff that these illusions can attract to you! Remain positive of what’s ahead, and only the positive can thusly be! Once the echoes of the negative in the subterranean cave of your mind fades away!
2: If you find that there are some really unsavoury thought patterns constantly pestering you, don’t grant them that continued breathing room! You can totally exorcise them by granting the ‘faith power’ of your beliefs to what it is you truly want to give your seal of approval to. For you see, they also say that anxiety is faith that you’ve sadly misplaced!!! Simply redirect it to the truth of reality, and presto! They just cannot but dissipate!!!
And that’s the end of my post! Man! I was really super! absorbed in this. Hopefully I can go to more fun light-hearted stuff for the next one, because I kinda find that this topic is too serious. I mean, it just kinda has this gravity to it that pulls me!! into solemnity, if you get what I mean!
Welp! That’s all for now! Bye!